Sometimes in life you have to know when to let go.
And although it may not seem like it at the time, it's usually a blessing in disguise. It's life telling you that a situation is not right and that something must be done about it.
When life presents you with an opportunity and you don't take it, it usually looks for another way to try and convince you. And each time you decline the offer it gets more and more insistent, until one day you have no choice but to accept.
So maybe it is time for me to learn to let go... but how?
I guess therein lies the opportunity.